{"id":3545,"date":"2019-01-19T00:01:09","date_gmt":"2019-01-19T08:01:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=3545"},"modified":"2018-11-21T14:46:29","modified_gmt":"2018-11-21T22:46:29","slug":"self-who-are-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/self-who-are-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Self &#8211; Who Are You?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/Self-Who-Are-You.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-474\" src=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"86\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u201cEvery man\u2019s work<\/span>, whether it be literature, or music, or pictures,<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">or architecture, or anything else, <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">is always a portrait of himself.\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Samuel Butler (1612&#8211;1680)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cCheerfulness keeps up a kind of daylight in the mind, and fills it<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">with a steady and perpetual serenity.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Joseph Addison (1672&#8211;1719)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Come my friends, sit in close to the fire where it is nice and warm. Allow me to share some extremely valuable information with you that will indeed change your life for the better. Before anyone is really and truly ready to begin their personal journey to their chosen place and level of success, <strong>they first must prepare themselves for success and then they need to position themselves to accomplish it.<\/strong> All too often people who begin their journey to achieve greatness and success in a given field of endeavor are inadequately prepared and poorly positioned. Consequently they most usually fail in their attempts. Now ask yourself,&#8230;. does their initial failure mean they are completely inadequate for the work needed and effort required to be performed in the accomplishment of their desired success?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">No it does not!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">It just means that more is required than what they have so far been willing to do before they too will be able to succeed at their attempted efforts and work requirements!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">There ain\u2019t no free lunches in this life. Because whenever somebody gets something for nothing, then somebody else had to give something up and get nothing in return for it.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Contrary to popular thinking,&#8230;that just isn\u2019t the way things work in our free enterprise system of economics in America. Pay attention now as I wade into this subject and try to make some sense out of it for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Although most of us probably attribute our problems to other people or to bad luck or to the circumstances around us, <strong>the truth is that we create our own success or failure.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The road to successful positive living must begin with an analysis of ourselves and it depends ultimately on how and what we personally think of ourselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Clergyman, author, and motivational speaker, Dr. Norman Vincent Peale, rightly declared many years ago, <strong>\u201cWithout a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot succeed. But with sound self-confidence you can succeed. A sense of inferiority and inadequacy interferes with the attainment of your hopes, but self-confidence leads to self-realization and successful achievement.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Dr. Peale\u2019s words ring just as true today as they did when he penned so many years ago.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cAs soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe (1749&#8211;1832)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cOne ought every day at least to hear a little song, read a good<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">poem, see a fine picture, and, if it were possible, to speak a few<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">reasonable words.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe (1749&#8211;1832)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201c<strong>A man is a method, a progressive arrangement; a selecting<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">principle, gathering his like unto him wherever he goes. What<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">you are comes to you.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803&#8211;1882)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">So now back to the discussion at hand&#8230;&#8230;..self-confidence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The next reasonable question that begs to be asked is \u201cHow do you build self-confidence within you?\u201d&#8230;<strong>Take your mind off the things that seem to be against you.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Thinking about negative factors simply builds them up into a power they need not have. Instead, <strong>mentally affirm and reaffirm and visualize your assets&#8211;the love of God your Father, the ability of your own mind and talents, the goodwill of your friends and family, your physical health, your strengths, your future, your possibilities.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Stamp indelibly on your mind a picture of yourself succeeding.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Make an accurate estimate of your ability, then raise it 10 percent through increased performance.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Affirm that God is always with you. Put yourself in His hands and believe (really believe) that you are now receiving power from Him for all your needs.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The most active organ of the human body is the inner ear.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Self talk is a requirement to accomplishing great personal success.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Now comes the absolute required step needed to keep these positive affirmations always at the forefront of your own mind. Speak out loud the things and quotations given to you within the confines of this discussion at least three times a day. If possible do so in front of a mirror so as to allow you to look yourself in the eye while you speak to yourself out loud. Make these affirmations an actual part of yourself. In so doing you will learn how to better control your thought processes and, ultimately, your own destiny.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cThou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Leviticus 19 : 18<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cThere is a spirit in man: and the Inspiration of the Almighty<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">giveth them understanding.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Job 32 : 8<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cBless the Lord, O my soul: and all that is within me , bless His<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">holy name!\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Psalm 103 : 1<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cSay to them that are of a fearful heart, Be strong, fear not.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Isaiah 35 : 4<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cThe life which is unexamined is not worth living.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Plato (427&#8211;347 B.C.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cWhat shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">lose his own soul?\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Mark 8 : 36<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cI can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Philippians 4 : 13<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cA good reputation is more valuable than money.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Publilius Syrus (Ca. 42 B.C.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cOur life is what our thoughts make of it.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Marcus Aurelius (121&#8211;180 A.D.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cA man of words and not of deeds is like a garden full of weeds.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Anonymous<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cNature arms each man with some faculty which enables him to<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">do easily some feat impossible to any other.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803&#8211;1882)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cA man is what he thinks about all day long.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803&#8211;1882)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cIn character, in manner, in style, in all things, the supreme<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">excellence is simplicity.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807&#8211;1882)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cWe have forty million reasons for failure but not a single excuse.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Rudyard Kipling (1865&#8211;1936)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cIt\u2019s nothing against you to fall down flat. But to lie there&#8211;that\u2019s<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">disgrace.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Edmund Vance Cooke (1866&#8211;1932)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cSpeech is silver, silence is golden.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Swiss Proverb<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cWe were all born under the same sky, but we don\u2019t all have the<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">same horizon.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Konrad Adenauer (1876&#8211;1967)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cOur self-image strongly held, essentially determines what we<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">become.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Maxwell Maltz (1899&#8211;1975)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cTo every disadvantage there is a corresponding advantage.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">W. Clement Stone (1902&#8211;2002)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">\u201cNothing in life is more exciting and rewarding than the sudden<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">flash of insight that leaves you a changed person&#8211;not only<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">changed, but for the better.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Arthur Gordon (1912&#8211;2002)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Your mind accepts anything and everything that you put into it. The verbalization of these affirmations through the your own mouth imbeds it into your brain through the channel of the body\u2019s most active organ, the inner ear. This exercise puts great truth into your mind. God\u2019s great Truths of Life allow you to strengthen and grow your own self confidence and your commensurate capabilities to use them and receive blessings and rewards from their application.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">When you begin to let your actions and deeds do your talking for you, you will be well on your way to great achievements.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Success is indeed a journey. It is not a destination.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Enjoy the journey.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Peace and Love to All of You&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;Poppa Bear <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cEvery man\u2019s work, whether it be literature, or music, or pictures, or architecture, or anything else, is always a portrait of himself.\u201d Samuel Butler (1612&#8211;1680) \u201cCheerfulness keeps up a kind of daylight in the mind, and fills it with a &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/self-who-are-you\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3545","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3545","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3545"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3545\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3557,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3545\/revisions\/3557"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3545"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3545"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3545"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}