{"id":2901,"date":"2017-07-15T00:01:44","date_gmt":"2017-07-15T07:01:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=2901"},"modified":"2017-06-01T13:06:03","modified_gmt":"2017-06-01T20:06:03","slug":"the-key-to-raising-great-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/the-key-to-raising-great-children\/","title":{"rendered":"The Key to Producing And Raising Great Children – An Actively Involved Dad"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>The family unit is the foundational building block of any society and culture. Father Power is paramount within the family unit.<\/strong> The man,…the Dad,…as created and appointed by God Almighty is to be the undisputed Head of the wife and the head of the children. Dear Old Dad must become the Head of the home if life is to be lived in accordance with the commands of the Lord. As goes the Dad,…so goes the family.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

The sad and true facts today are that far too many children are being raised in fatherless families. Everybody and everyone loses when children grow up in homes without an active, live-in, and committed father. The best way to teach other people, particularly your own children, is by example. That can only happen when there is a Dad in the house,…a real man in the house. In order for this type teaching to take place and to work, there first has to be a great and good example displayed. An absentee or uninvolved father displays or exhibits no example except a bad and incorrect one. Children can observe and duplicate only that which they first see exhibited.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Our Almighty Creator God established the proper and correct vertical alignment for a successful family unit. He full well knew what it would take for a successful family to begin, persevere, endure, and grow closer to each other and to Him over their lifetime. As is always the case, when we human beings do things right in accordance with God\u2019s Laws then there always results great rewards and blessings. Conversely when things are done wrong or in opposition to God\u2019s Laws, the perpetrators will suffer great harm and unhappiness. God shall not be mocked!<\/span><\/p>\n

Blessings, benefits, and great rewards in life are all predicated on individual people (family members) having an established, strong, and abiding spiritual root to their lives. The truth is that a person must first come to personally know God and develop a close personal relationship with Him before he can ever learn and then employ God\u2019s laws in the living of his own life. In order for the things of life and of God to work properly, they have to be performed in the correct order and way. It is true that \u201call things are possible to him who believes,\u201d consequently believing in God and His Laws must come first before a great accomplishment can be\u00a0<\/span>subsequently realized. We serve a God of order, specifics, and certainty,…not a god of confusion, discord, or chaos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Adam came first in the batting order of creation. This is not my opinion. The Bible gives us the straight chain of events. Adam, man, came first within the order of creation, then came the woman, Eve. Thirdly came children. That is God\u2019s order,…not mine. Now if we desire the blessings that are promised to us as stated within the Holy Scriptures, then we must perform in the manner so instructed. There are no short-cuts, quick fixes, or fast elevators to success and happiness. We reach our desired destination by consistently and persistently climbing the ladder of success, one step at a time, everyday until we reach where it is that we want to go.<\/span><\/p>\n

Dad is to be the Head of the Family. He is to be the king.<\/strong> It is not an automatic or demanded thing or position. The man has to earn the position through godly performance and behavior of required activities and manner of living. The man earns the position and its authority through love, care, and respect for all of the members of the family, and through protecting and providing for all of the needs of the family. Love<\/strong> and Respect<\/strong> for all the family members are the anchor points to keep the family unit close to each other and close to God.<\/span><\/p>\n

Self-esteem isn\u2019t a lesson you teach a person; it\u2019s a quality you nurture as you live together and strengthen your personal relationships.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

The Bible tells us about this very important instruction and it is recorded in the Book of Ephesians, Chapter 6, verses 1–4 NKJV:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Children and Parents<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

(1) \u201cchildren, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

(2) \u2018Honor your father and mother,\u2019 which is the first<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\n commandment with promise:<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

(3) \u2018that it may be well with you and you may live long on the<\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\n earth.\u2019<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

(4) And you fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/span>
\n bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord<\/span>.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

You see blessed friends, leadership in the home is not about power or control,…it is all about mutual submission (See Ephesians 5:21). Godly, manly leadership within the home is about husbands and fathers becoming Christ-like in their behavior while they are leading, providing for, and protecting their families. Spiritual leadership within family life and activities means giving up yourself for the blessing and benefit of someone else. It means assuming responsibility for the health and development of your relationships. Good Dads need to take charge and become a good and godly example for every member of their family.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

The job of properly raising a family has been correctly and properly completed by the Mom and Dad when the mere mention of either of their names brings forth fond memories, recollections, and heartfelt on-going love and smiles to the faces of all of their children.<\/span><\/p>\n

Television personality and broadcaster, Hugh Downs, was once interviewed for a television presentation. The interview serves as a great example from which all of us can learn more about the effects of father power in a child\u2019s life and the long term benefits and blessings that accrue to the parents who put forth the energy, resources, and continual effort to produce and raise a good family. Permit me to re-tell in summary format the results of this referenced interview:<\/span><\/p>\n

When the interviewer asked Mr. Downs about his own father, Hugh\u2019s face instantly lit up like a switched-on incandescent light bulb. He said that he vividly remembered sitting in his dad\u2019s lap as a little boy, talking with him for long periods of time. His dad would intently listen to him and nod thoughtfully, making him feel both wise and worthy of his attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mr. Downs talked about the many times his father had taken him to the symphony and while enjoying the beautiful music, his dad would carefully\u00a0<\/span>explain in detail the names and sounds of the many and various instruments being played.<\/span><\/p>\n

Hugh went on to further discuss the many different visits on which his father had taken him to various art and history museums. He told about how his dad had discussed art and local history in a way that made it seem alive and fascinating, even to a little boy. Mr. Downs further explained that his father had not only shared a great deal of information with him, he had communicated an overall enthusiasm for life.<\/span><\/p>\n

The interviewer freely related that he could see how the joy of the father lived on in the life of the son.<\/strong> Hugh Downs\u2019 openness to new ideas, his compassion, and his wide-ranging interests are a testimony to how rich life can be for those fortunate men and women whose fathers and mothers were skilled in the art of dispensing usable love!<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether or not you personally grew up with such a loving and nurturing father and mother really is not the question at hand. The real question is how will you produce, raise, and nurture your own children and grand children? What kind of example will you be to your children? What kind and how big will the imprint on your children\u2019s lives be that you leave with them while you are alive and involved in their lives? It is my personal prayer that your imprint is great and mighty and lasts for your children\u2019s entire lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

Peace And Love to All of You………………Poppa Bear<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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