{"id":2662,"date":"2017-01-14T00:01:35","date_gmt":"2017-01-14T08:01:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=2662"},"modified":"2017-01-18T14:12:37","modified_gmt":"2017-01-18T22:12:37","slug":"learn-from-your-past-mistakes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/learn-from-your-past-mistakes\/","title":{"rendered":"Learn From Your Past Mistakes"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Learn-From-Your-Past-Mistakes.mp3\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-474\" src=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"86\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>You\u2019ve heard it said that experience is the best teacher. That is definitely a true statement,&#8230;but it can better be said that evaluated experience is the best teacher. It has been my personal evaluated experience that far too many candidates attempting to achieve success don\u2019t remember what they have learned from the past mistakes they personally have made or from the mistakes others have made. Without having learned anything valuable from such mistakes, these ill advised people just continue to repeat the same mistakes over and over again. What a waste of time, effort, and other resources. What is even worse for these candidates, is that they think that after a few months or years of gaining knowledge through their own experience,&#8230;they no longer need to pay attention or make any further adjustments in their behavior because by now they foolishly think that they have learned all that they need to know. As a consequence they close the \u201cdoors of education\u201d to their minds and completely stop learning any thing more than what they already know. It is in this weakened mental state that they base their knowledge and understanding. The result&#8230;collapse of their platform of performance&#8230;i.e. long term failure. How sad a predicament in which they find themselves. <strong>The day you stop learning and growing your own mind is the same day that your business and personal activities and growth stop getting any bigger.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">As a point of interest, permit me to tell you that <strong>if you cannot remember something or a point of fact, or method of performance,&#8230;then you never really learned it in the first place.<\/strong> Furthermore, if you never really learned it to begin with, how in the world are you ever going properly perform it or put it into action? Remember, <strong>you don\u2019t know that which you don\u2019t know!&#8230;<\/strong>and since you don\u2019t know it, you cannot use it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Increased knowledge, understanding, and wisdom are the keys that unlock the doors to your future growth and its related prosperity.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">May I say to you that there is a huge difference between actually knowing something of value and thinking that you know something of great value.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">No wise or thinking person enjoys being around a \u201cknow-it-all.\u201d These type of folks always have an all-inclusive answer for every thing, every person, or every event that has, is, or will be happening. They are, most usually, ready, willing, and well able to provide their own personal wisdom as applies to any thing that is happening,&#8230;whether it is asked for or not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Successful people, on the other hand, are just the opposite. They prefer instead to allow the other people around them to speak first, and speak most of the time. <strong>Successful folks listen to what is being said, then weigh the ideas being expressed by others, and finally evaluate what is being said against their own personal knowledge and experience.<\/strong> Only then do they even think about offering their own insight, knowledge, or wisdom on the issue(s) at hand. Successful people are a rare commodity indeed. That is why they are always able to control their own thoughts, actions, and mouths.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">This is not new information to a person who is well read. The material I have been discussing is all laid out within the pages of Holy Scripture,&#8230;whether you believe it or not. Let\u2019s take it back to the very beginning,&#8230;to where it all started,&#8230;at the Creation of mankind,&#8230;in the <strong>Book of Genesis, Chapter 3, verses 1&#8211;7, ESV:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The Fall&#8230;The Great Deception<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(1) \u201cNow the serpent was more crafty than any other beast of the<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> field that the Lord God had made.<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> He said to the woman, \u2018Did God actually say, \u2018You shall not<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> eat of any tree in the garden?\u2019<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(2) And the woman said to the serpent, \u2018We may eat of the fruit<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> of the trees in the garden,<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(3) but God said, You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree that is<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> in the midst of the garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> die\u2019<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(4) But the serpent said to the woman, \u2018You will not surely die.\u2019<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(5) For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.\u2019<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(6) <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food,<\/span><\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was<\/span><\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> with her, and he ate.<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(7) Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> themselves loincloths.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">And so the fall of humankind occurred here on earth (caused from their disobedience to God\u2019s Laws). This Fall took Adam and Eve spiritually to a new place underneath the control of Satan and thereby produced man\u2019s weakness of the flesh. Sin so entered the world. Man\u2019s rebellion against the Creator\u2019s Laws has plagued him forever, after Adam and Eve\u2019s original disobedience. The Fall separated man from God and he was to remain in a separated state until or unless he was reconciled back to God through a developed personal relationship with Him expressed by the process known as becoming \u201cBorn-Again.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The Holy Bible says that foolishness is anything or any activity that separates a person from their Creator God. Your Heavenly Father greatly desires for you to grow closer to Him as you grow up and mature. He wants you to commune and be near to Him in all of your activities. He knows that this is what is best for you. As such He has given you ample instruction as to how to best draw nearer to Him as you live out your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">A \u201cknow-it-all\u201d is, by all measures, someone who foolishly believes he is smarter and wiser than Creator God. His perceived brilliance causes him to expound on any or all areas of life as if he were an expert&#8230;even when he is blatantly incorrect in his thinking, understanding, and speech.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">God laid down His Laws in the first five books of the Bible. Honesty and integrity were the foundation of all His laws. In the <strong>Book of Deuteronomy, Chapter 16, verses 18&#8211;20 ESV<\/strong> we are all given precisely what and how He expects any and all people to conduct their thoughts and human affairs. Speaking to His chosen people, the Jews, He gives these forthright instructions:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Justice<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(18) \u201cYou shall appoint judges and officers in all your towns that<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> the Lord your God is giving you, according to your tribes,<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> and they shall judge the people with righteous judgement.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(19) You shall not pervert justice. You shall not show partiality,<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> and you shall not accept a bribe, for a bribe blinds the eyes<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> of the wise and subverts the cause of the righteous.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(20) Justice, and only justice, you shall follow, that you may<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> live and inherit the land that the Lord your God is giving<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> you.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">God makes it quite clear that He desires man to use and live with His truths and rules of life rather than expecting or allowing man to come up with a whole new set of his own laws.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">In the <strong>Book of Proverbs,<\/strong> God emphatically tells us in <strong>Chapter 3, verses 7&#8211;8 ESV:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(7) \u201cBe not wise in your own eyes;<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> fear the Lord, and turn away from evil.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(8) It will be healing to your flesh<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> and refreshment to your bones.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Again in the <strong>Book of Proverbs, Chapter 10, verse 1, ESV:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(1) \u201cA wise son makes a glad father,<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> but a foolish son is a sorrow to his mother.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">God makes it perfectly clear about how to succeed using your own talents and abilities. He tells us in the <strong>Book of Proverbs, Chapter 12, verses 14&#8211;16, ESV:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(14) \u201cFrom the fruit of his mouth, a man is satisfied with good,<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> and the work of a man\u2019s hand comes back to him<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(15) <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The way of a fool is right in his own eyes,<\/span><\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> but a wise man listens to advice.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(16) The vexation of a fool is known at once,<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong> <span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"> but the prudent ignores an insult.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Violation of these God-given rules of life automatically places a human being into the category of a fool. That is not a good place to be. But, that is precisely why generation after generation people make the same foolish mistakes that have already been made by their predecessors. May I exhort you to become a wise person, and to continue to grow in your God-given wisdom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Before you ever make any kind of a personal decision or take any kind of overt action to resolve any issue(s) you are facing,&#8230;pause and first ask yourself,&#8230;\u201cIs this the wise thing for me to do?\u201d If your answer is \u201cYes,\u201d then immediately take action. If your answer is \u201cNo,\u201d then stop and reconsider your basis of reasoning and make a new and better (wiser) decision.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">God truly desires for you to become highly productive and successful in all of your living activities. But he wants you to do it His way and not that of your own.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Peace and Love to All of You&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;Poppa Bear<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019ve heard it said that experience is the best teacher. That is definitely a true statement,&#8230;but it can better be said that evaluated experience is the best teacher. 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