{"id":21728,"date":"2023-02-04T00:01:18","date_gmt":"2023-02-04T08:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=21728"},"modified":"2023-02-01T22:46:42","modified_gmt":"2023-02-02T06:46:42","slug":"being-a-man-is-a-matter-of-choice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/being-a-man-is-a-matter-of-choice\/","title":{"rendered":"Being A Man Is A Matter Of Choice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/02\/Being A Man Is A Matter Of Choice.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-474\" src=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg 375w, https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><\/a>To reach the maximum of their manhood, all real men must live more and more Christlike lives.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>To do so requires not an automatic choice\/response, but rather a calculated self-willed decision and follow through effort.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The facts of the matter are that today with all of the sin and corruption facing every human being within our own culture and society, moral pollution is taking its toll on all of manhood.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is causing it to disintegrate before our very eyes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The answer to such a dilemma is to be found within the Holy Scriptures.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The undeniable truth tells us that the Israelites were great examples for us to follow and live out our own lives today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Here is a case in point.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The Israelites had missed their opportunity to enter the God-granted Promised Land because they had committed five basic sins.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>These sins are outlined in detail in the <b>Book of 1 Corinthians Chapter 10, verses 6-10<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>NKJV:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(6) <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cNow these things became our examples, to the intent that <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>we <\/b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>should not lust after evil things<\/b><\/span> <b>as they also lusted.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><\/b><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">(7) \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span>And <\/b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>do not become idolaters<\/b><\/span><b> as were some of them.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>As it is<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>written, \u2018The people sat down to eat and drink, and rose up<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>to play.\u2019<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">(8) \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Nor let us commit sexual immorality<\/b><\/span><b>, as some of them did,<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>and in one day twenty-three thousand fell;<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><\/b><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">(9) \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Nor let us tempt Christ<\/b><\/span><b>, as some of them also tempted, and<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>were destroyed by serpents; <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><\/b><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">(10) \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/b><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><b>Nor complain<\/b><\/span><b>, as some of them also complained, and were<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>destroyed by the destroyer.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">These five sins committed by the Israelites kept them from entering the Promised Land&#8230;.their preordained blessed inheritance as promised by God to His chosen people.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>If it happened to them,&#8230;it can happen to you! <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The five sins were:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Lust<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Idolatry<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Fornication<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Tempting Christ<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Murmuring<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">It is imperative that you sir, that you madam, insure that you do not shut yourself out of God\u2019s intended blessing for you by committing any of these same sins.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Careful examination and honest evaluation coupled with a realistic understanding of our society and culture as exists today will always lead to the correct resolve that <b>fornication<\/b> stands out as the most obvious committed sin in our nation today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I would have to tell you that my experience over the past 37 years of being directly involved and working with other people is that the folks who have failed to reach their Promised Land did so because of their own sex sins!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The children of Israel had nothing on us&#8230;No sir,&#8230;we match sin for sin with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Sexual promiscuity, living together as if married to a person to whom you are not married, multiple sexual partners, illegitimate births, sexually transmitted diseases, and the like are rampant in our society today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The problem just keeps growing and getting bigger and involving more and more people within our communities. So many lives are all being effected by sex sins.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The problem is as bad and prominent within the church as it is outside of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The real truth of the matter is that most men and women today are indeed searching for their own Canaan Land&#8230;..their own Promised Land.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is a place where problems are resolved, relationships are restored and renewed, wrongs are made right, conflicts ended, and love of self and others is always at the forefront of people\u2019s thoughts and efforts.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Canaan Land is a place of great positive morality.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is a Land of Plenty.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>BUT&#8230;<b>you must understand full well that there can never be Morality until there is first sexual Purity.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> God gave the headship of the family to Adam in the Garden of Eden.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Therefore it is the man\u2019s personal responsibility to protect and insure that his woman stays sexually pure until she reaches the legal marriage bed.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>The man must protect the purity of the woman.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>In so doing the morality of the people can be properly established and maintained.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Canaan Land was always a place, a Land, in biblical history, that was God\u2019s symbol of mankind\u2019s maximized potential.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Canaan is the place where God\u2019s promises are fulfilled in our lives&#8211;the place where God maximizes the potential of His people both individually and collectively.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>And it effects their spirits, emotions, and bodies; their marriages, children, and professions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Canaan Land was the place as described in the Old Testament where God wanted the Israelites to live after He delivered them from their bondage in Egypt.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They were to live there in faith, and God would fulfill his promises to them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The same is true today for you.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>Your Canaan Land is a Land of Promise where God wants you to live by faith today.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> <b>There, He will fulfill His Promises in your life.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is there that you can reach your own maximum potential.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> Canaan Land is indeed real!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It represents that place where your total success in life today is achieved, lived, and enjoyed.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>It is definitely where God wants you to be and to live.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Those five reasons, those five sins, are why men today do not get their Canaan Land fulfillment in life.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>God truly does want men to have Canaan Land marriages, businesses, parental relationships, and educations.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>However because of their committing any one or more of those five sins, all too many men and women eliminate themselves from ever enjoying the benefits and blessings that come with the occupying of this precious and valuable territory.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>Those five basic sins still plague men and women today and keep them from the fulfillment of the potential in their lives.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">If you desire to be happy, fulfilled, and highly productive, make certain that you avoid committing any of those five sins.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Be strong and be courageous and conduct your life and your affairs with other people in a godly and proper manner.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>When you do that, your heavenly blessing is sure to follow.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The way to your Canaan Land is bordered with godly boundaries.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Never cross those boundaries.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>Stay within the proper rules of personal conduct.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Be godly, be righteous, be honest, and be faithful.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That can only happen to and for you when you trust and obey the Word of God.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Be A Real Man and Always Act Like One&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To reach the maximum of their manhood, all real men must live more and more Christlike lives.\u00a0 To do so requires not an automatic choice\/response, but rather a calculated self-willed decision and follow through effort.\u00a0 The facts of the matter &hellip; 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