{"id":21461,"date":"2022-02-05T00:01:02","date_gmt":"2022-02-05T08:01:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=21461"},"modified":"2022-02-04T15:20:53","modified_gmt":"2022-02-04T23:20:53","slug":"looking-for-success-in-all-the-wrong-places","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/looking-for-success-in-all-the-wrong-places\/","title":{"rendered":"Looking For Success In All The Wrong Places"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/Looking For Success In All The Wrong Places.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-474\" src=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"108\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg 375w, https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><\/a>Many of you may remember the popular old country and western song entitled, \u201cLooking for Love in All the Wrong Places.\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It carried a catchy tune and melody and was played daily by disc jockeys across the nation.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The jist of the lyrics was how sad and unfortunate most folks are who are truly looking for someone to love, but they look in the wrong places for such a person and consequently never find that special someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Well, I tell you the truth, the same situation applies to most folks who are\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">in fact looking to become successful.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They want to succeed so badly. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>They are ready to pay almost any price in order to snare their vanishing dreams, accumulate great wealth, and achieve that oh so elusive goal of real success.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Most of them spend a good deal of their productive years on this quest to get what it is they are after,&#8230;but&#8230;they never find it because they keep trying to find it where it really does not exist and therefore cannot be found.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">It makes no difference if you are the best fisherman in the world,&#8230;if you have the finest tackle and gear that money can buy,&#8230;if you hire the best qualified fishing guides to help you,&#8230;If you fish in the bathtub in your home,&#8230;there is a real good chance you won\u2019t catch any fish.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Why? because You are fishing in the wrong place&#8230;That\u2019s why!\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Let us (you and I) take a really good, hard and long look at you and the dreams that you want to achieve.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Let us examine carefully and closely at what you really want to achieve as a result of living your life in a happy and successful manner.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">From the looks of things, you are, according to man\u2019s (secular) standards, pretty impressive.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You are living in a beautiful home, drive a fairly new above average automobile, and you are doing well above average financially.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Most probably your neighbors would agree that you\u2019re a hard worker who is well employed.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You are definitely climbing straight up on that ladder toward success&#8230;Am I relatively close to the picture of things?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Your salary is good and your material possessions are growing in number and value.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Your 401 K retirement plan is current and funded to the maximum permissible level.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You may even boast of a local country club membership&#8230;BUT&#8230;the truth is that you are <i>empty on the inside<\/i> and you are <i>faking it on the outside. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/i><b>Not one thing you own in your \u201ckingdom\u201d has brought you the happiness that you so long for!<\/b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Now let\u2019s look a little closer into your ways of thinking and rationalizing about how you can make life a little better for yourself.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Possibly your thought process would go something like this,&#8230;\u201cMaybe if I could find and land a better, higher paying job, or even explore a<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>career change,\u201d&#8230;.or \u201cget into a bigger house\u201d,&#8230;or&#8230;\u201c drive a new luxury car,\u201d or&#8230;.or&#8230;.or&#8230;.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">STOP THIS TYPE OF THINKING&#8230;ALREADY!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Don\u2019t allow this smoke screen of borrowing more money to acquire more things blind your eyes to the truth.<b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>There is a lot more to being rich than just making or borrowing more money&#8230;&#8230;.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Seneca, the Roman, was right when he said, <b>\u201cMoney has never yet made anyone rich.\u201d<\/b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Do you really want Riches?&#8230;.Wealth?&#8230;.and true Success?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Then I tell you&#8230;..<b>Go to the Word of \u201cThe Creator Of The Universe.\u201d to the One who made all things.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Read what He has to say concerning how to become successful.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is all written in The Holy Bible for all to see and read and to use to create their own wealth and happiness.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">In the <b>Book of Joshua 1 : 8-9<\/b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The Holy Bible reads&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(8)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cThis Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(9) <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Have I not commanded you?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">In the <b>Book of Psalms<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>1 :<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>1-3<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>NKJV. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> The Scripture reads:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(1)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cBlessed is the man<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly,<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Nor stands in the path of sinners,<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Nor sits in the seat of the scornful;<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>(2)<\/strong> <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>But his delight is in the law of the Lord,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>And in His law he meditates day and night.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(3) <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He shall be like a tree<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Planted by the rivers of water,<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>That brings forth its fruit in its season ,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>Whose leaf also shall not wither;<\/b><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>And whatever he does shall prosper.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">In the <b>Book of Matthew<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>6 : 33<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>NKJV. <\/b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The Holy Bible reads:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(33)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/b>\u201c<b>But<\/b> <b>seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Pay careful attention.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Remember what I am now telling you.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is up to you<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>to find the right and proper way to honestly and legally create your own godly wealth.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It is there for anyone who looks for it in all of the RIGHT PLACES.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">God gives us a little help in getting started on the right path .<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">In the <b>Book of Matthew<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>7 : 7-8,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>NKJV. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> The Holy Bible reads:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(7)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cAsk, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(8)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Having given you just a taste of what God commands us to do to become prosperous and enjoy the many blessings of the wealth that you may properly create, it is now up to you to begin to <b>Ask&#8230;Seek&#8230;<\/b>and<b>&#8230;Knock.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Money made right always spends right&#8230;<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Money made wrong always messes you up or even destroys you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">You want <i>real riches?<\/i> <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Try switching kingdoms&#8230;.leave your own kingdom, the secular way, man\u2019s way,&#8230;. the fleshly way, and start creating your new found wealth in God\u2019s Kingdom creating it God\u2019s way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Remember, money is a storehouse of value, but more importantly it is a unit of measure of the amount of service you render to another human being.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> Therefore, in order to have more money in your life, you must render more and better quality service to other people than you are presently rendering.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You must get better at what you are doing and render more service or production than you presently are.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>If that is not possible with your present ways and means of generating cash flow, then do something more, something different, something in addition to your job. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Permit me to suggest that you start a business of your own.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Become a productive part of the American Free Enterprise System rather than a slave to it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Step out from the crowd and do what only a few do in America&#8230;Own and operate your own business.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>That is the only way that you have an assured chance to ever really make it today to the top.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Leaders Gotta Lead&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many of you may remember the popular old country and western song entitled, \u201cLooking for Love in All the Wrong Places.\u201d\u00a0 It carried a catchy tune and melody and was played daily by disc jockeys across the nation.\u00a0The jist of &hellip; 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