{"id":21008,"date":"2020-10-10T00:01:13","date_gmt":"2020-10-10T07:01:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=21008"},"modified":"2021-01-03T16:11:10","modified_gmt":"2021-01-04T00:11:10","slug":"i-am-afraid-i-am-so-scared","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/i-am-afraid-i-am-so-scared\/","title":{"rendered":"I Am Afraid…I Am So Scared"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>FEAR IS REAL.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

FEAR is truly a powerful force.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

But<\/b> the<\/b> really<\/b> good<\/b> news<\/b> is<\/b> that<\/b> fear<\/b> can<\/b> be<\/b> cured<\/b>.\u00a0 <\/span>It<\/b> can<\/b> be<\/b> conquered<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n

However before such victory can be achieved we need to fully understand fear….what it really is…how it develops….and how it needs to be handled and overcome.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fear in reality does not actually exist.\u00a0 <\/span>It is only imaginary.\u00a0 <\/span>It occurs in our life only because we allow it to occur in our minds.<\/span><\/p>\n

U. S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt once said……. \u201cThe only thing we have to fear is… fear itself.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Such a statement seems to suggest that fear is imagined and is indeed a real enemy.<\/span><\/p>\n

FEAR is defined as…..F<\/b>ALSE..E<\/b>VIDENCE..A<\/b>PPEARING..R<\/b>EAL<\/span><\/p>\n

The fact of the matter is that if fear exists it will always be accompanied by its friend, called doubt. \u00a0 <\/span>Together they make a mighty force that paralyzes the recipient and keeps them from ever achieving what they, in fact, are capable of accomplishing.<\/span><\/p>\n

As I have previously stated, it is my experienced opinion that fear in and of itself really does not exist.\u00a0 <\/span>It is only imagined as we individually allow thoughts about\u00a0 <\/span>it to enter and permeate our own minds.\u00a0 <\/span>Since we ourselves have allowed fear to enter our minds…then we can also cast it out of our thought processes and hence cure our own fear.\u00a0<\/span><\/b> That ought to excite those <\/b>of you who are being held hostage by your own fears.<\/span><\/p>\n

Successful people are problem solvers.\u00a0 <\/span><\/b>They quickly recognize wherever a problem exists and immediately identify its cause and then immediately set about resolving the problem by coming up with an acceptable solution.<\/span><\/p>\n

On the other hand, failure oriented folks encounter a problem and are stopped dead in their tracks by it.\u00a0 <\/span>Forward motion halts and fear sets in which insures no solution is forthcoming. \u00a0 <\/span>Hence the problem continues<\/span><\/p>\n

on..and..on..and..on.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fear is indeed success enemy number one! \u00a0 <\/span>Fear stops people from capitalizing on opportunity; fear wears down physical vitality; fear actually makes people sick, causes organic difficulties, shortens life; and fear closes your mouth when you want to speak.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Fear\u2014uncertainty, lack of confidence\u2014explains why there still exist economic recessions, failing economies and political upheavals.<\/span><\/p>\n

Fear explains why millions of people accomplish little and enjoy little as they live their lives.\u00a0 <\/span>Most fear today is psychological.\u00a0 <\/span>Worry, stress, strain, anxiety, embarrassment, tension and panic all flow from a individual\u2019s mismanaged negative imagination.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you are attempting to achieve success in your future then you must identify and eliminate fear from your life.\u00a0 <\/span>The sooner…the better.<\/span><\/p>\n

Allow me to share with you some information I know about fear. \u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Fear always carries with it two running mates.\u00a0 <\/span>Wherever you see one, you will always see the other two.\u00a0 <\/span>They are Doubt and Lack of Confidence.\u00a0 <\/span>This\u00a0 <\/span>unhealthy \u201cTrio\u201d will destroy any of your chances to succeed in your life unless and until you exterminate them from your mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Success is an all purpose elixir to everyone.\u00a0 <\/span>Nothing breeds more success than success itself.\u00a0<\/span> Success begets more success.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Now listen to me carefully.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

All confidence is acquired, developed.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

No one is born with confidence.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Those people you know who radiate confidence, who have conquered worry, who are at ease everywhere and all the time,…developed and acquired their confidence,……..every bit of it.<\/span><\/p>\n

YOU CAN TOO !!!<\/span><\/p>\n

There is<\/b> one thing and only one thing that will cure your fear…….<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

and that is for you to face your fear and do THAT VERY THING THAT SCARES YOU.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

As Doctor David J. Schwartz correctly says in his book, THE MAGIC OF THINKING BIG:<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cACTION CURES FEAR.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Indecision,..postponement,..procrastination all… FERTILIZE FEAR<\/b>.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

You see, dear friends,..Fear is basically a lack of Faith.\u00a0 <\/span>What I mean by that is that the opposite of faith is doubt and as I have previously mentioned, doubt is a partner of fear.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now faith connotes Hope.\u00a0 <\/span>Both Faith and Hope are action words.\u00a0 <\/span>They imply that there is an action that is needed to be taken before the results of the words are achieved.<\/span><\/p>\n

The word Faith is defined in Holy Scripture, The Book of Hebrews 11:1 says:\u00a0\u201c Now faith is the substance of things hoped for,…the evidence of things not seen.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

When we face tough problems. We stay mired in the mud until we take action.\u00a0 <\/span>Hope is definitely a start…But hope needs action to win victories.<\/span><\/p>\n

Trust me.\u00a0 <\/span>Put the action principle to the test…put it to work.<\/span><\/p>\n

The next time you experience big fear or even little fear,…steady yourself.\u00a0 <\/span><\/span>
\nThen search for an answer to this question:\u00a0 <\/span>What kind of Action can I take to conquer my fear?<\/span><\/p>\n

Isolate your fear…..Then take appropriate action……<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

You will survive and your confidence will have risen.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Your fear will have diminished and your doubt will be gone.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

And finally just remember…..Hesitation only enlarges,…magnifies the fear.<\/span><\/p>\n

TAKE ACTION PROMPTLY. \u00a0 <\/span>BE DECISIVE.\u00a0 <\/span>ACTION CURES FEAR.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

Leaders Gotta Lead…..<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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