{"id":20879,"date":"2020-05-02T00:01:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-02T07:01:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=20879"},"modified":"2020-04-20T14:19:05","modified_gmt":"2020-04-20T21:19:05","slug":"why-meeting-and-connecting-with-other-people-is-so-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/why-meeting-and-connecting-with-other-people-is-so-important\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Meeting And Connecting With Other People Is So Important"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Why-Meeting-And-Connecting-With-People.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-474\" src=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"86\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>I can only speak for myself because I do not know you personally or how you were raised.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I was indeed masterfully blessed to have had the parents (both mom and dad) who were gifted to me by the Creator, God of the Universe, in the spring of 1945.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>My dad was my hero and best friend.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He was a native Idahoan and he was a very good provider, protector, teacher, and example to and for his one and only wife and three children.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He was a military (U.S. Navy) veteran of World War II.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He loved his family and country and passed on its history as well as the price that had been paid by our ancestors for the freedoms and liberties we all enjoy as free Americans.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We, his family, had been well schooled in and about the full price that had been paid by and with our ancestor\u2019s shed blood on battlefields all over the globe.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>My precious mother was a beautiful black haired, brown-eyed sweetheart who somehow, someway, by virtue of her own upbringing, always mysteriously just knew how to elegantly, gracefully, and properly handle each and every situation that confronted us as we grew up in Boise, Idaho, and the surrounding State of Idaho in the 1940s, 50s, 60s, and 70s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">My siblings and I were<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>taught good social manners and personal hygiene. We were taught good social skills, manners, and graces. We were taught good penmanship and proper use of the English language both in writing and speaking.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Good and accurate grammar reigned supreme in our lives.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It was very important for all we kids to properly and effectively communicate with other human beings.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>My dad insisted we always behave well and properly.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We were taught how to live a good life and lifestyle with honesty and integrity.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>We were raised to be proud of our good family name and reputation.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>I thank God for my parents and their influence in my life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">My dad was always teaching us how to plan ahead and to be aware of our surroundings. \u201cPay Attention to what is going on around you.\u201d And, \u201cThink before you Act,\u201d were the two<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>catch phrases for all of us to use at all times. \u201cThink beyond what other people are thinking,\u201d was<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>his daily encouragement.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Indeed we were blessed by his family leadership role and active involvement in each of our lives.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Little did I realize how valuable his counsel would turn out to be in my own life as time marched forward.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The 1950s and the early1960s were the most formative years of my personal life.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Thank you, Al and Kitty Severn for all that you poured into me as your oldest son and personal student as to how to become a real, responsible, and most successful man, husband, father, visionary, and<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>American Patriot.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Leadership, <\/b>in any arena, always boils down to simply\u2026<b>influence<\/b>\u2026in, on, and around other people with whom you are dealing.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>Your own personal strength and ability as a leader of other people is best measured by the amount and strength of leadership talents and abilities you possess, develop, and pass on to those who are following you.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">It has been said somewhere within the confines of those who study and publish official individual statistics that <b>every person alive,\u2026including the most introverted people\u2026will influence at least 10,000 other people with their own use of their own lives!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> Think about that number for a moment.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Regardless of your own abilities, as compared to other people, you will touch and influence at least 10,000 human beings while you live a full and normal life on this earth!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Now ponder that number as you mentally roll it over in your own mind.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Look at the geometric reproduction, impact, and influence that your cause, mission, or purpose will have over the years of your personal service to those whom you influence.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The impact of your life will definitely be of great significance and importance.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Have no doubt about it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You are most valuable and usable.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>Don\u2019t waste your own life!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You count!<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Make your own life count as your live here on earth!<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>God\u2019s Laws equally apply to everyone, everywhere, every day.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Whenever you know, understand, and then apply God\u2019s Laws of Success\u2026.they do precisely what God\u2019s Word says that they will do.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Never doubt or question God or His Word.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The Word of God tells us (in only one place within the Bible) about the word <b>\u201cSuccess.\u201d<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/b>It is recorded in the <b>Book of Joshua, Chapter 1, verse 8,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>NKJV:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(8)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cThis Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all that is written in it.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good SUCCESS.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Now in order to get a good perspective of God\u2019s intention, let use take a quick look at verse 9:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(9)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cHave I not commanded you?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">And again at the <b>Book of Mark, Chapter 11, verse 24:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(24)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>\u201cTherefore I say to you, what ever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">God tells us in His Word in the <b>Book of John, Chapter 14, verse 6,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>NKJV:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(6) \u201cJesus said to him, \u2018I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Because of these true statements, it is clearly obvious that the only way to a personal relationship with God Almighty and to insure your only way to get to heaven after your physical life here on earth ends, is through your belief in and acceptance of Jesus Christ, the only Son of the Living God, as the Lord and Savior of your soul.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Meeting these requirements is discussed in the New Testament <b>Book of Romans, Chapter 10, verses 9\u201410. NKJV:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(9)<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 \u00a0 <\/span>\u201cthat if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>(10) <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>For with the heart one believes unto righteousness and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Now as a word of caution, your personal actions truly tell the world what your true personal beliefs really are. In other words, your example\u2026what you do\u2026as you are living out your own life\u2026gives away what you really believe.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>Your example is always on display for all the world to see.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">So why then should you pay attention to all people who come into your life as you live it out on a daily basis?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>God\u2019s Word tells you that He created you in His own image and that He has a full and complete plan for your life\u2014 a perfect plan for your own personal success.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>This statement of Truth appears<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>in the<b> Book of Ephesians, Chapter 2, verses 1\u201410,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>NKJV:<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Now believing that specific Truth and accepting it into your own mind allows you to conclude that God makes no mistakes and He is fully knowledgeable of anybody and anything that occurs or comes into your own believing mind and existing world of activities.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Whatever those things may be, they are all a part of an overarching Plan for your successful life\u2014as long as what you are doing is honest, and legal, and<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>is the right and righteous thing to do, and it honors and benefits God Almighty and your fellow man or woman.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Therefore, all such things are all part of God\u2019s master plan for your life.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/b> Therefore, be aware of your surroundings and activities, and the people who come into your life.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>When something or someone new or different than your normal operating procedures comes waltzing into your life, reach out to them, introduce yourself to them, show interest in them and what they are doing.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>This could be the start of something Big!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">You never know\u2026if this new person or some other person whom you have never met before, but who is or will be influenced by this new person, just\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">may lead you to another person who can and will help you establish a new personal relationship that will be a doorway to the successful completion that God has in store for you.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>How do you ever know if the new person is the one?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You don\u2019t.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Just play out this personal relationship development with a positive mental attitude, a smile, and a servant\u2019s heart and let God do His work.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>This new person coming on scene in your life is not an accident.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He or she is being sent into your life for a specific purpose.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">God always works initially behind the scenes.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>He and His helpers always first come into your life from \u201cout-of-the-blue.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Peace and Love to All of You\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026..Poppa Bear<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can only speak for myself because I do not know you personally or how you were raised.\u00a0 I was indeed masterfully blessed to have had the parents (both mom and dad) who were gifted to me by the Creator, &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/why-meeting-and-connecting-with-other-people-is-so-important\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20879","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20879","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20879"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20879\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20884,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20879\/revisions\/20884"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20879"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20879"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20879"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}