{"id":20744,"date":"2020-02-01T00:01:12","date_gmt":"2020-02-01T08:01:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=20744"},"modified":"2020-02-03T10:19:39","modified_gmt":"2020-02-03T18:19:39","slug":"prepared-to-succeed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/prepared-to-succeed\/","title":{"rendered":"Prepared To Succeed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/01\/Prepared-to-Succeed.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-474\" src=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"86\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/b><\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Success will happen in anyone\u2019s life whenever two separate things occur simultaneously&#8230;.whenever OPPORTUNITY and PREPAREDNESS meet&#8230;&#8230;It is a major focal point of your life.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The sad facts are that all too often the great opportunity presents itself into the life of a desirous person&#8230;.but goes on unaccepted and unused all because the individual to whom the opportunity was presented was simply unwilling or unprepared to grasp it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">It should be noted by all those who desire to become successful, that the fact is&#8230;..<b>Success Does Not Attack.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Success Is Not An Accident&#8230;.Success Is A Planned Event.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Before I go any further into this discussion I must stop and ask you, the reader, three vital questions:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">1.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Do you really truly want to become successful ?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">2.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Are you totally prepared for success to occur in your life ?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">3. \u00a0Are you in the right position to allow an opportunity to come into your\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">life that will enable you to succeed ?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Once you have answered these questions honestly and openly you will have some idea or indication as to whether or not you are a candidate for success.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Here is a little progression of events that I have observed over the past 36 + years that make or break an individual in their move from wanting to be successful to actually becoming successful.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>It goes like this:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">I wish<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">I want<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">I NEED&#8212;&#8212;I GOT<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Wishing gets you started&#8230;Wanting keeps you going&#8230;.But only NEEDING gets the job done. <span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Until you truly <b>Need<\/b> to have something accomplished in your life&#8230;&#8230;you will most likely never totally commit to pay the full price to succeed and do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to actually become successful as you fulfill your needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Let\u2019s examine each of these above three questions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">1.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Do you really truly want to become successful?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Unless and until you know who you really are and what you are really<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>involved in that will allow you the opportunity to s<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">ucceed,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>you most<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>probably won\u2019t be ready to pay full price to accomplish your desire. \u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">(I wish&#8230;I want&#8230;I NEED&#8230;I got).<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Do you want to become successful<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">&#8230;or&#8230;better yet&#8230; Do you Need to become successful?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Before you can completely answer this question you must have a Dream.\u00a0<\/span><b style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">A Dream that is so big, and so clear that it<\/b>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>arrests your mental\u00a0<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>attention.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/b>It has to be something tangible or intangible that you cannot\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">achieve in your present <\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">capacity&#8230;and&#8230; it has to be something so big in\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">scope that you cannot achieve it just using your own personal talents and<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">abilities.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Do you have a dream that qualifies to allow you to become successful?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">No one can dream for you&#8230;It has to be <b>YOUR DREAM.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">2.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Are you totally prepared for success to occur in your life?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">Success is not going to happen for you if you are \u201c sort-of \u201d committed to\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">its accomplishment.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Do you have your priorities\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">right ?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Can you\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">eliminate the significant distractions in your schedule that will give you<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>enough extra free time to<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">accomplish your goals that are going to carry\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">you on to success ?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Finally are you willing to give up (sacrifice) some<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>frivolous things or events that will hinder you from a consistent work\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">effort that will be required to allow you to achieve\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">your own desires?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">3. \u00a0Are you in the right position to allow an opportunity in your life that will\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">enable you to succeed?<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You cannot just hop up<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">onto a log and roll off the\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">other side and easily slip into a successful life.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Full price must be paid on\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">your part.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>All the dues<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">must be paid by you.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>No one can pay them\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">The required parameters to permit you to achieve your desired level of<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span>success must be put into place before you will ever<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">receive the stated\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">benefits.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Don\u2019t try to take short cuts or get to where you want to go on\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">less than what you are told are<\/span>\u00a0<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">the prerequisites for the level of success\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">you say you want to accomplish.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">To be successful you need to do the following four things totally and completely.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>You Must:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">1.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Know <b>WHAT<\/b> it is that you really want&#8230;.and <b>WHEN<\/b><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>you really want to accomplish it,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">2.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Know <b>WHAT<\/b> you are willing to <b>GIVE UP<\/b> in order to get what it is that you really want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">3.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>ASSOCIATE <\/b>with other successful people who can help you get what it is that you really want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..and finally&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">4.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span><b>PLAN YOUR WORK AND CONSISTENTLY WORK YOUR PLAN.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">To allow your success to happen, you need to listen with an open mind and an open heart to the instructions from those people who are willing to teach you, and then be prepared to act on the instruction they have given you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">All the noble thoughts, magnificent plans, and \u201csecrets\u201d of achievement in the world are of little value unless and until they are put into action.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>Your worth is always determined by your deeds, not by your good intentions, however noble they may be.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">You do all of these things and follow the advice and counsel of your mentor.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Stay steady with your work ethic.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Keep a positive mental attitude.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Don\u2019t let anybody steal your dream&#8230;..AND&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">YOU WILL MAKE IT&#8230;&#8230;.YOU WILL SUCCEED.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\">A closing thought.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>Martin Luther King, Jr. once correctly said:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14pt;\"><b>\u201cYou don\u2019t have to see the whole staircase, just to take the first step.\u201d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; 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