{"id":1111,"date":"2013-10-28T00:01:18","date_gmt":"2013-10-28T07:01:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/?p=1111"},"modified":"2013-10-27T17:06:02","modified_gmt":"2013-10-28T00:06:02","slug":"make-certain-you-know-where-you-are-going-before-the-journey-begins","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/make-certain-you-know-where-you-are-going-before-the-journey-begins\/","title":{"rendered":"Make Certain You Know Where You Are Going, Before The Journey Begins"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/10\/Make-Certain-You-Know-Where-You-Are-Going.mp3\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-474\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg\" width=\"270\" height=\"77\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio-300x86.jpg 300w, https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/SEV-CampfireAudio.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 270px) 100vw, 270px\" \/><\/a>How many times in your life have you decided to go somewhere special whether it be with just one friend or with a larger group of people, and folks involved just could not settle on a destination.\u00a0 Try as you may to convince everyone of a desired and preferred destination, there just wasn\u2019t a consensus among the participants.\u00a0 Arguments, heated or cool, can spring up out of nowhere.\u00a0 People can get pretty \u201ctesty\u201d about their own likes and dislikes can\u2019t they?\u00a0 <strong>Getting more than oneself to agree on any given path or performance can sometimes be a real ordeal.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Sadly, when there is no leader of the group who is involved in the decision process, the chances for agreement are pretty slim.\u00a0 Once again A Truth of Life raises its head&#8230;.<strong><i>Everything in life rises and falls based upon leadership.<\/i><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">If there is no target, how does one evaluate his effectiveness in hitting the bulls-eye?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">If there is no score, how is it possible to determine a winner?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">If there is no specific destination, how can your efforts and motion be termed a journey?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Novelist Johan Wolfgang von Goethe said, <strong><i>\u201cThinking is easy, acting is difficult, and to put one\u2019s thoughts into action is the most difficult thing in<\/i> <i>the world.\u201d<\/i>\u00a0<\/strong> Is it possible that that is the very reason why so very few people follow through and act on their goals?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Without having a end point,&#8230; a final termination of your planned travel,&#8230;then all you are doing is <i>wandering around<\/i> wasting valuable time and resources, while getting absolutely nowhere.\u00a0 Sadly, a vast majority of people live their entire lives doing exactly that&#8230;.<i>wandering around<\/i> in the fog&#8230;.usually in a circular pattern&#8230;.always coming back to their original starting point.\u00a0 No sense of achievement, &#8230;no satisfaction of having been somewhere special and returning with grand memories and wonderful experiences,&#8230;no new friendships established,&#8230;nothing,&#8230;just&#8230; \u201cHere I am, back again to my starting point.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Are you beginning to get a better grasp on the importance,&#8230;no, <strong>I should say on the absolute necessity of having a definite, decided destination, target, or end point, <i>before<\/i> <i>you begin your journey<\/i>&#8230;.And if there are more than one person making the trip, that all parties involved are agreed as to the final destination?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Chances of actually getting to where you really want to go are greatly lessened without this pre-agreed ending point being well established prior to departure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">It has been said that <i>if you aim at nothing, you will surely hit it.<\/i>\u00a0 That is the way most folks live out their lives.\u00a0 They don\u2019t know <i>what<\/i> they really want.\u00a0 They don\u2019t know <i>where<\/i> they are really going.\u00a0 They don\u2019t know <i>how or when<\/i> they are going to get there.\u00a0 They basically have no real clue about the purpose to their life.\u00a0 Consequently they are seldom happy or joyful people.\u00a0 They have few if any real close friends.\u00a0 They are not very adventurous people, and they seldom accomplish anything of real significance,&#8230;primarily because they simply will not take many, if any, real risks&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">All that lack of meaningful performance and its related under-achievements could all quickly change if and only if they themselves would change their attitudes and their thought habits from bad to good,&#8230;.from negative to positive!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Non producers are the majority!\u00a0 That is exactly the reason I keep telling people that <strong>if you want to be successful just simply observe the masses and do the opposite.\u00a0 Because the masses are going nowhere,&#8230; they are just <i>wandering around<\/i>.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">You see, the real trick or secret, if you will, to acting on your goals and beginning the journey to your own success is simply <i>Showing Up <\/i>and <i>Getting Started!<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Some very wise counsel was once given by U.S. President Franklin D. Roosevelt.\u00a0 You would be wise to heed his advice.\u00a0 He said, <strong>\u201cIt is common sense to take a method and try it.\u00a0 If it fails, admit it frankly and try another. But above all, TRY SOMETHING.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Remember, Success is the progressive realization of a worthwhile dream or goal.\u00a0 It is a journey, it is not a destination.\u00a0 It is a process that occurs over an extended period of time.\u00a0 It develops,&#8230;it grows and becomes greater each week,&#8230;it evolves from nothing but a dream into something very great and beneficial to everyone.\u00a0 There are two primary things that you must do to become successful:\u00a0 (1) You must follow through with a consistent and persistent work ethic,..i.e. doing that which is required and necessary to complete your journey.\u00a0 And (2) You must <i>Never Quit Working<\/i> toward the completion of turning your dream into reality. \u00a0 That\u2019s It, Period!\u00a0 Get Started and Never Quit!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Don\u2019t make this program of achieving your success any more difficult than it already is or that it needs to be! \u00a0 See It Big,&#8230;Keep It Simple!<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Many studies of people have been made as to why they achieve or fail to achieve.\u00a0 One that stands out was done by Gregg Harris.\u00a0 Here are the results of a group of 100 people who were studied:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">A.\u00a0 67 people actually set goals for themselves.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\"> B.\u00a0 But of those 67 people, only 10 made realistic plans to reach their set<\/span><br \/>\n<span>\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">goals.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\"> C.\u00a0 Out of those 10 people, <i>only 2 follow through and actually make them<\/i><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\"> <i>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 happen.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Here is proof positive of what you have heard me say time and time again.\u00a0 In the greatest, freest, and wealthiest Nation in the world, The United States of America, only 2% of our population achieves actual $ucce$$!&#8230;.financial independence and personal freedom.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">All who fail in our Nation today, fail because of a unwillingness to <i>work and continue working&#8230;following through&#8230;.day<\/i> <i>after day&#8230;week after week, year after year&#8230;DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES&#8230;to complete the job, the mission, the purpose,&#8230;until the job is done,&#8230;until the necessary work is completed.<\/i><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">If you give up,&#8230; if you prematurely quit working,&#8230; then you really have not failed <i>per se.<\/i>\u00a0 No, all you have done is <i>Quit&#8230;Y<\/i>ou gave up on yourself and your own family,&#8230;.on your dreams and goals and plans for a better future.\u00a0 No one is to blame except YOU.\u00a0 <strong>The only person from whom you can ever really quit is YOU.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">NEVER GIVE UP ON YOURSELF AND YOUR OWN FAMILY.\u00a0 GOD PUT THE RESPONSIBILITY TO CARE FOR THEM ALL ON YOUR SHOULDERS, DAD&#8230;.IT CANNOT BE DELEGATED OR REASSIGNED TO SOME ONE ELSE.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">Always keep in mind that you do not have to be flawless.\u00a0 You do not need to be any more than you presently are. You do not need some attribute someone else has that you do not possess.\u00a0 <strong>You just need to BEGIN,&#8230;. doing what you have been properly instructed to do&#8230; ..doing it with only that which you do possess,&#8230; and doing it the best you are capable of doing it.\u00a0 That is known as a START.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">There is an old phrase that hits the nail on the head as regards your success&#8230;.<i> \u201cBeginning is half done.\u201d <\/i>The same advice given in another way using some more cowboy counsel is&#8230;.<i>\u201cA job well begun&#8230;is a job half done.\u201d\u00a0<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\"><strong>It is good to remember that you do not need to be perfect,&#8230;you only need to make progress.<\/strong>\u00a0 Success is the progressive realization of a worthwhile dream or goal.\u00a0 Progress is what you are after.\u00a0 The rate of progress is a variable that only the worker (you) can set or change.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\">An old Chinese Proverb provides some very the good advice I can share with you as concerns your personal success.\u00a0 It says, \u201c<i>Be not afraid of going slowly; be only afraid of standing still.\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\"><i>It is time for you to begin making some progress,&#8230;for you to start moving in the direction of your own dreams!<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px;\"><b>Peace and Love to All of You&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..Poppa Bear<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How many times in your life have you decided to go somewhere special whether it be with just one friend or with a larger group of people, and folks involved just could not settle on a destination.\u00a0 Try as you &hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/make-certain-you-know-where-you-are-going-before-the-journey-begins\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1111","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1111","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1111"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1111\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1113,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1111\/revisions\/1113"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1111"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1111"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/davesevern.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1111"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}